Monday, March 11, 2019

Jesus is your friend.




Friends

Someone needs you to be a friend to them today. God wants you to know and believe that you can be that friend. It starts with Jesus.
Never fake, always faithful, your friend Jesus loves you with a sincere love. Who needs your love to be more sincere?
Jesus rebukes evil and chases temptation from bullying you, providing you opportunities to do what is right. What group of friends needs your help to avoid evil and pursue good? 
Jesus prayed, "Father forgive them," for his enemies. Who is an enemy you can pray for and forgive? 
Jesus welcomed strangers and shared his greatest gifts with them. Who is estranged from the church or homeless, needing your hospitality? 
Jesus wept with Mary and Martha and celebrated with his disciples. Who needs your companionship in a time of grief or a time of joy? 
So, as a friend of the resurrected Jesus, empowered with his love, be a better friend. "A friend loves at all times" (Proverbs 17:17).
There's a service that will provide you, for a fee, someone to pretend to be your friend—to take to the club, the gym, the symphony, or the company fundraiser. Jesus has a better idea. How about living, dying, and rising for someone he calls his friend. That friend is you. 
Jesus' idea—yes, his command and promise—is that you befriend others like he has befriended you. 
PRAYER: Dear Jesus, you are the perfect friend. You love at all times. I have taken your friendship for granted, and pray that your love forgives me, that our relationship continue in grace, and that I more fully enjoy you this week. Share love, forgiveness, encouragement, and help with others through my friendliness. Make me a better friend. Amen.
FURTHER MEDITATION: Read John 15:12-17. Take it slow. Is it possible for you to love others like Jesus loves you (v. 12)? Of course it is, or Jesus wouldn't "command" it. Are you someone Jesus calls friend (vv. 13,14)? Of course you are, even if you haven't perfectly done what he commands. Because in v. 14 he plainly says "I have called you friends." So it is not your behavior that makes you a friend of Jesus, but that by grace he declares it to be, he calls it what it is, he calls you his friend, he chooses you (v. 16). He laid down his life for you, after all. Commit to 5 minutes of prayer about this. Meditate on Jesus as your friend, and his promises of loyalty here. Ask him to help you be a better friend.


Daron Lindemann
CrossLife Church
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Friday, March 8, 2019

How do you overcome the fear of rejection?




Rejected

Jia Jiang knocked on the door of a complete stranger in Austin, TX and asked if he could play soccer in the man's backyard. He requested a "burger refill" at a restaurant. And he went viral with his video where he asks a Krispy Kreme Donuts clerk to make him a chain of donuts that look like the 5 colorful rings of the Olympics logo.
Why did he make these strange requests? In order to overcome his fear of rejection.
In his TED Talk https://youtu.be/-vZXgApsPCQ Jia Jiang recaps childhood and adulting memories of rejection, and his journey to overcome its pain. It resulted in a video blog he created over the course of 100 days. Each day he'd ask someone (usually a stranger) something so ridiculous that they'd surely say no. He hoped that being rejected often enough would desensitize him to the pain.
What actually happened? Jia Jiang learned more about how to not be rejected. He has written book titled Rejection Proof: How I Beat Fear and Became Invincible through 100 Days of Rejection. 
I think it's a worthy adventure! And I can't help but compare his journey to the rejection Jesus experienced. Jia Jiang even mentions Jesus in his TED Talk as someone who turned rejection into a learning opportunity. Jesus appears in the same line as Nelson Mandela, Ghandi, and Martin Luther King, Jr. 
These are great men. Along with Jia Jiang who is really onto something here. But none of them are equals to Jesus. Because Jesus' rejection wasn't a learning opportunity for him. It was an act of saving forgiveness for you.
Jesus experienced rejection—from the crowds, from the Jewish and Roman authorities, from his own friends, and even from his Father in that moment of ultimate spiritual agony on the cross (Mark 15:34). Not to learn from it. Not to turn it into an opportunity for himself. Not to desensitize himself to it.
Jesus was rejected to suffer the justice and punishment for your sins, so that you would never be rejected in the same way. 
He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain … For he bore the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors. (Isaiah 53:3,12)
Jesus was rejected for you. For sinners. That rejection saved us, forgave us, and will be the reason God welcomes into heaven anyone who believes in Jesus. 
PRAYER: Oh, Jesus, your agony of pain from the beatings, the crown of thorns, the cold iron spikes piercing your flesh, it had to hurt so much. Even more, the pain of rejection. I admit to fearing rejecting, too, even rejection from God. My conscience convicts me, and my feelings of shame constantly harass me. I'm not always convinced that God forgives me. Your saving work and words promise me that these are lies, that there is no rejection for me because of my sins, that you have experienced it for me. Make me bold in my faith that receives this gift of grace. Encourage my spirit to live more joyfully, aware that my sins are forgiven and I am free to live confidently and unafraid. Teach me, yes, but more than that, save me, forgive me and strengthen me. Amen.
FURTHER MEDITATION: Spend at least 15 minutes exploring Psalm 118:22-24. 
  1. Picture a construction crew erecting a stone wall, going to a pallet of stacked stones and carefully selecting each one for its place on the wall. Stone after stone, until a few stragglers are left at the bottom of the ballet with other little broken pieces, and the crew moves on to another pallet. That rejection is what you'll read about Jesus in v. 22. It continues, however, that this construction crew is not responsible for your forgiveness, salvation, and new and improved life of faith. "The Lord" (v. 23) is. What has he done with the stone the builders rejected (v. 22)? 
  2. What is our response (vv. 23,24)? When does this happen (v. 24)? 
  3. Use these key highlights to say your own prayer to Jesus. Enjoy the song called Cornerstone https://youtu.be/Fl15U2ifYzo. 


Daron Lindemann
CrossLife Church
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Thursday, March 7, 2019

God is mindful.




Mindful

God is attentive.
It doesn't matter that it's bitter cold at the time of year we normally call spring. God isn't hibernated deep in a dark cave. And when your boyfriend breaks up with you, or your boss lets you go, or your big project is ruined … it doesn't mean God was too busy helping other people. 
God is aware.
We call it mindfulness. According to mindful.org, mindfulness is being "fully present" and there's "awareness to what you're directly experiencing." As an everyday example, it's taking time to pause and breathe for a moment when your phone rings, instead of rushing to answer it.
God always answers thoughtfully.
We can say to him like the writer of Psalm 8:
When I consider your heavens,
    the work of your fingers,
the moon and the stars,
    which you have set in place,
what is mankind that you are mindful of them,
    human beings that you care for them? (Psalm 8:3,4)
With appropriate wonder and awe, we're amazed that the God of the universe is connected to us. We seem so insignificant compared to the stars. Not in God's heart. Recall that at creation God said a word to create the stars, but personally molded a pile of soil to make humans and breathed life into us. 
God acts on our behalf.
So, be mindful of God today. Because he's mindful of you.
PRAYER: Dear God of the universe, you are so immense and indescribable that it's hard to imagine that you connect personally with me. Cover my lack of comprehending you with your promises that assure me that you are mindful of me in a way I'll never understand, yet sometimes see by faith. Guide my thoughts to be less focused on fear, shame, anger and guilt and freed from lies that Satan wants me to believe. With the gravity of your gracious, saving activity attract my mind, my feelings, and my inner life toward you, above the circumstances and experiences of this day. And comfort me with the assurance that you know me, care for me, and fill my day with peace as I trust in you. Amen.
FURTHER MEDITATION: Read Psalm 8. Notice the bookended theme of the psalm in vv. 1 and 9. Verses 1 and 2 announce that God's glory is proclaimed in the heavens (by the moon and stars, v. 3) and also where? Verses 5-8 remind us that after creation God appointed mankind to rule over the earth. What a privilege that God asks us to supervise what he has worked to create! How does this make a difference for your consumption of resources? your generous sharing of blessings? your care for your own health and the health of others?


Daron Lindemann
CrossLife Church
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Wednesday, March 6, 2019

Angels on Ash Wednesday




Let All Mortal Flesh Keep Silence

Today is Ash Wednesday, the beginning of the season of Lent. 
Ashes signify repentance, and the dust-to-dustness human nature of our lives. As children of Adam, we also are made from dust or dirt, possessing "mortal flesh." We are in need of cleansing from our dirtiness and sinfulness.
The prophet Isaiah knew this, so when in a vision he stood before the throne of God surrounded by angels, he cried, "Woe is me!" By his grace, God cleansed him with forgiving, purifying mercy. The angels around the throne rejoiced!
Here is a video for Ash Wednesday that captures those truths. It references the vision in Isaiah chapter 6, and connects purifying forgiveness to the ultimate act of God on the cross. It is set to the music of an ancient song: Let All Mortal Flesh Keep Silence. 
Find a quiet place. Clear your schedule for 20 minutes. Turn on the volume. Say the BEFORE prayer below before watching the video, and the AFTER prayer after watching the video. Then spend a moment on this holy day in quiet meditation.
BEFORE PRAYER: Dear holy God, as I contemplate the weight of my sins and the burden of my guilt, I sink in despair that there is no hope for mortal flesh like mine. I cannot be the good person you demand that I be—perfect in every way. I realize the reality of pain, heartache, trouble and ultimately death. I only ask that in your mercy you save me, not because I am worthy but because you are full of mercy and compassion. Open my eyes now, to see in the animation of this video your precious promises being fulfilled in the death of your Son Jesus, and the rejoicing of angels as the holy collides with the unholy and overcomes it. Amen.
AFTER PRAYER: Dear gracious God, today is a day for silence, for quiet meditation, for repentance and for an inner joy and confidence that you are so serious about saving me that your Son suffered for all my sins. It's so real, and it's so done. Finished. Complete. Now, during this season of Lent, I want to give up sin, I want to endure temptation with more resilience, and I want to love you with all my heart and mind and soul and strength. I am awed by your love, and truly appreciate the power of your promise that I'm forgiven. Amen.
FURTHER MEDITATION: Visualize pieces of the video that you noticed with special interest. What promise of God do they communicate to you today? How will holding this promise close during the 40 days of Lent help you?


Daron Lindemann
CrossLife Church
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Tuesday, March 5, 2019

Moses, Elijah and Jesus




Departure

Ask every person at the airport lined up to board a flight, "Where are you going and why?" Each will have an answer. Departures all have destinations. Purpose.
Moses knew about departures. God called him from the burning bush to lead the Israelites on their exodus from slavery in Egypt. For 40 years Moses lived in tents and picked up stakes, navigating the Israelites' journey to the promised land. He was always packing his bags to go somewhere. Departures.
And Moses obeyed God's invitation for him to go up onto Mount Sinai to meet. Moses came down from his meeting with God and his face was shining (Exodus 34:29).
Elijah knew about departures. When the Bible says "the word of the Lord came to Elijah" it then tells us that the Lord's instructions were "Leave here" (1 Kings 17:3) or "Go" (1 Kings 17:9; 18:1; 19:11,15). Departures.
And Elijah led others like Moses did. He told a destitute widow to go get him a drink of water and some bread, then told her to go home where the Lord would provide a full pantry of food that would never run out. He challenged King Ahab to go to Mount Carmel for a showdown between the Lord and Baal.
Centuries after these two men of God died and their souls departed to heaven, they miraculously appeared on another mountain with Jesus. "They spoke about his departure, which he was about to bring to fulfillment at Jerusalem" (Luke 9:31). 
Jesus had somewhere to go. Like Moses and Elijah, he obeyed the command from his Father to depart. He had a destination (Jerusalem) and a purpose (to die for the sins of all people). He'd be leaving the Mount of Transfiguration behind, the glorious appearance that his disciples wanted to linger. Departure. 
And, like Moses and Elijah, Jesus leads others to go, as well. Leave your sins behind this week. Go to the cross of Jesus during this season of Lent. Recall the past but don't live in it. Step forward with faith and courage into a journey of the future where you don't know it all, control it all, or have it all planned perfectly but your Lord leads the way. Think confidently about your final departure from this earth when your soul will go to heaven.
Moses and Elijah will be there. Jesus, too. 
PRAYER: Dear Jesus, what was it like for you to be transfigured on that mountain? Bright as a flash of lightning, you appeared gloriously for a moment. Then it was over, and you walked down the mountain toward your suffering and death. You left glory behind for pain and sorrow. You departed. And you fulfilled a divine itinerary so that I would never be commanded by God to suffer for my sins, never face condemnation for my guilt, and never need to fear the past, present or future. Walk with me through this week, and through my life. Help me obey your commands and discern your direction. Remind me that the Christian life is a journey, a process of following you in the little and big decisions of each day. I am journeying into the season of Lent. I can't wait to meet you there again. Amen.
FURTHER MEDITATION: Read Luke 9:28-36. What are some of the characteristics and behaviors of the 5 men on the mountain with Jesus—some of them exemplary, some not so much. Meditate on these characteristics and behaviors, how they apply to your life. Pray about them and then depart to face your day with peace and confidence.


Daron Lindemann
CrossLife Church
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Monday, March 4, 2019

Too terrible?

Justified

The ER staff goes to work on the drunk driver, a repeat offender who has just plowed into an innocent family. He's lying bloody on the operating table, his life hanging by the thread of their split-second response. The sheriff's deputy escorts into the courthouse a handcuffed prisoner in a bullet-proof vest, not only directing the prisoner but protecting the life of that prisoner who himself had no regard for the lives of others. 

Who is the drunk driver? I am—spitting slurred words of mockery at the very doctors I need to save me. 

Who is the condemned prisoner? I am—taunting with idle threats the very judge I need to set me free. I am no victim of unfortunate circumstances. I was an enemy of God having slapped him in the face with my rebellious crimes of sin.

You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly … But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God's wrath through him! For if, while we were God's enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! (Romans 5:6,8-10)

"Sinners" and "enemies" and "ungodly" are words the Bible uses for our condition when Christ died for us.

Christ didn't die for two classes of people: those who deserve a pat on the back and those who deserve a slap across the face. Christ died for one class of people. "Christ died for the ungodly." All people. The greatest act of evil in any person isn't enough to keep Christ from his greatest act of love for all people.

"While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Have you ever felt like you can't be forgiven because you've sinned too often? This is God's promise that nobody is too sinful for God's love.

"Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God's wrath through him!" Ever feel really guilty because you haven't forgiven your parents for their divorce, because you didn't spend enough time with the kids, because you haven't read your Bible as much as you should? It feels like your guilt is just piling up higher and higher and someday soon God's really going to make you pay for it. Impossible! Jesus' blood justified you from any guilt. Your guilt doesn't exist! It's gone! 

Now go find that person who doesn't deserve your kindness, who hasn't earned your love, and freely give it to them. You can, because you'll be giving what you have graciously received.

PRAYER: Who am I, Lord, to limit your love? I limit your love to me when I doubt you can forgive me. I limit your love to others when I deny that you can forgive them. But I am nothing without your unlimited love, your mercy on me that doesn't wait for some holy accomplishment on my part. Free me from my self-made prison of guilt, and help me show mercy also to others that they may also be freed and forgiven. Amen.

FURTHER MEDITATION: Read Romans 5:6-11. Focus on vv. 6, 8 and 10. Each of them describes our real, spiritual condition that Jesus took to the cross, to his death. He killed these! What are the words the Bible uses for these conditions? Then, focus on vv. 9 and 11. These verses describe our new, real, spiritual condition since Jesus died for us. What are the words the Bible uses for these conditions? Do a Google search for synonyms for each of these words. Meditate on their meaning and say a prayer of thanks to God for his grace.



Daron Lindemann

CrossLife Church
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Friday, March 1, 2019

Don’t look up too far




Real Heroes

Some people pray to the saints in heaven, insisting that they can push buttons for God's divine interventions that we cannot. 
Some people wear sports jerseys with the name and number of a professional athlete, or body fragrance marketed under the name of a beautiful Hollywood star. 
Some people spend big bucks on front row tickets at live concert venues, giddily delighted when the energetic performer's sweat (or spit, eeeuww!) splashes onto them.
Some people follow a political big shot and change their own Facebook profile picture to an image of that person's face.
Some people call this hero worship. 
There is certainly delight in admiring excellence, joining fan clubs or collecting autographs. There is also the danger of secondhand living. 
It looks like this: My life is so mundane, average, or even worthless, that I need to identify with a superstar. I could never do what they do, but I feel accomplished if I can live in their shadow. I'm a somebody if everybody knows that I'm much more closely associated with a hero than the average person. I feel accomplished. Valued. 
So the real danger of hero worship isn't just that we make infallible celebrities out of people who are just as flawed as we are. More than that, we allow them to convince us that we're nobodies. 
We could never do what they do. The bar is set way too high. So we sit in the stands as spectators. We chat with our friends about the batting average or Grammy nomination of our favorite star. 
And once in a while, the media reports a story about a "real hero," an average suburban soccer mom reaches out to a disadvantaged family or typical small-town teen who rescues a dog. Ah, we're getting closer. Almost there, but not quite yet.
The Bible records the faith stories of all kinds of people we'd call heroes, and actually lists a bunch of them in Hebrews 11. Not to worship or pray to them. Not to attach ourselves to in order to become somebodies. 
The Bible presents heroes because they're on our team. We're not spectators, we're in the game. Just like they are. 
We're on stage performing, sweating our own sweat not someone else's. We're leading and influencing people, swaying others' opinions by our witnessing. We're achieving success, conquering adversity, and angels in heaven cheer for us. 
Be more confident that God has a place for you in the script and a position for you in the game. A starring role, actually. Live your life as you. Identify as a uniquely gifted and empowered individual, personally loved by the Father, saved by Jesus and set apart by the Spirit.
So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded … we do not belong to those who shrink back and are destroyed, but to those who have faith and are saved. (Hebrews 10:35,39)
With faith in Jesus, you follow him and find confidence. You put on the cape because others around you are doing the same. You belong. You have value and identity. You take a bigger leap of faith instead of shrinking into the shadows. And your statistics or profile become just as meaningful as the admired celebrity's.
PRAYER: I often feel like a nobody, God. I call it humility but in my heart I know it is closer to despair, self-pity, and the result of comparing myself to others who are much better. You, Father God, didn't call me to this when you claimed me as your child. You, Jesus my Savior, didn't save me for this. You, Holy Spirit, aren't breathing life into my soul so that it fizzles flatly like a deflated balloon, but you are blowing on the embers of a fire ready to ignite, to crackle and roar and set the world ablaze. God, you made me for more than secondhand living, more than spectating as I observe heroes. You make me to be a hero. Give me greater confidence to have faith in your promises of the impossible. Draw me out from the shadows, from the back of the crowd, from comfortable living as a nobody and help me make more of a difference. Amen.
FURTHER MEDITATION: Now you're ready to enjoy the Bible's presentation of the heroes of faith in Hebrews 11:1-31. Read it and rejoice in God's work through average people like you. By faith (not by their own personal prowess) these folks acted as agents of God. Take tomorrow and the weekend to keep your Bible open on the coffee table and spend some moments getting lost in this list of heroes. Rejoice in them, but don't be a spectator simply cheering for a game. Join them. Identify with them. Don't become them or pray to them. Step into action by their side. Take note of their faith and Christian character. Choose two or three of them whose confident faith leads you to be more confident in your faith. Pray about it. Talk to a friend about it. And get ready for a new week.


Daron Lindemann
CrossLife Church
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